Scrapbooking For Beginners - A Step by Step Guide to Your First Scrapbook

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In my scrapbooking for beginners guide, I hope to save you all the mistakes I made when I began my first scrapbook and the mistakes which other guides have cost me.


When I began my first scrapbook I spent nearly two hundred dollars on everything from how to books to layouts and magazines. Five years later I haven't used half of what I bought, despite having several scrapbooks. My mistakes were two-fold. First I had no organization, and second I had no planning. While not as fun as buying all the stickers and layouts, planning your first scrapbook album will save money and save time.


Step One - Choose Your Theme!
The very first step in your scrapbook should be to decide the theme. Picking your theme will be important in many ways, not the least of which is to have the correct photos for each page. Its also important to choose your theme before you organize your photographs so that when you are browsing your photographs you can add them to multiple themes later.


The first scrapbooking guide I read began by telling me to get a few pictures, card stock, pens and embellishments. That was actually terrible advice. Once I had everything in front of me, I realized that it was nowhere near the items for what I wanted my scrapbook pages to look like. In order to make a scrapbook which you can call your own, choose your theme before buying the materials.


Themes can include scrapbooks about The Disney Vacation. Our Wedding Day. Our Honeymoon. Baby's First Year. Each theme will need certain photographs which depict days or moments you want to remember. You can have as many themes as you wish and can even have the same photograph in multiple themes. For your first scrapbook try and pick a theme for which you know you have numerous photographs.


Step Two - Choose Your Photographs!
Now that you have a theme in mind, its time to pick out photographs to use. Photographs get scattered everywhere so its best to find the ones you wish to use at the start your scrapbook. When we got married my husband and I had a DVD of pictures, professional photographer pictures, pictures from my mother and father, disposable reception camera pictures, friends sent pictures, friends of parent sent pictures. I had to stop most of the time when making my scrapbook to find the right pictures someplace else. My biggest mistake was missing photos when I began scrapbooking because I had forgotten to pick them out beforehand.


The great thing about scrapbooking is that if you do forget a picture or two, you can just add another page in your scrapbook. The bad part is if you want a picture to be part of a page you've already designed and glued together, you have to remake the page.


When choosing photographs, its best to have two to three photographs per page but you can have as few as one or as many as eight. You can have as many pages as you want in each scrapbook album.


My wedding scrapbook album has two hundred photographs and four different sections. Each of my four sections was part of a separate album which I incorporated into one album. Its very large, but its also very dear to my heart. That is what scrapbooking is about, making each scrapbook a memory in itself which can be reviewed and enjoyed by anyone. Each album chronicles an event or time which is important to you.


Step Three - Make copies
In my opinion this step is the most important part of starting a new scrapbook album. Make copies of every photograph you will use at the start. Make two copies if possible. There will be times when you wish to cut a photograph to fit an idea for your scrapbook. Or glue something onto the photograph. If you want to use the photograph in multiple albums, an album for each of your children with the same themes for example, you'll need 1 copy of each photo for each album plus the original. (and if you're clumsy like me, you'll want an extra copy for when you mess up! haha)


Photographs can be made digital and saved onto computer discs. You can upload them to webites like Flickr so you can have physical copies made at a later time or you can make online scrapbook albums.


Store the negatives and back up discs (DVDs) of all photographs in a special area away from the actual photographs.


Step Four - Write and gather a list of items to include in the scrapbook album


When I speak about what you'll include I mean besides pictures and journal entries. Each page of your scrapbook album includes pictures, a small piece of writing about the picture and whats known as "embellishments". Purchased embellishments will be included in the later part of this guide, however at this point I'm writing about personal embellishments.


The wedding album I put together had pieces of my dress as backing of photographs. I used ribbon from the linen napkins for bows on other pages. Some pages had little pieces of the sequins from my gown, the Ashcroft my husband wore was on another page with his picture. You may not want to glue those items to your books but I chose to do so. Maybe you have a blanket you child used, part of a stuffed animal to include, the buttons off your cheerleading uniform. There are hundreds of little embellishments you can include from your personal life which make your album even more special. One of my friends used sand colored with food dye she got on her honeymoon in her album about her honeymoon.


Plenty of guides speak about the little embellishments to add in your scrapbook album. Their embellishments include glitter and little pieces of beading from the stores etc. Before you spend your money on those, find the items in your house to include in your scrapbook. Old Christmas or wedding cards, Birthday cards, towels, an old cat toy etc etc..


Step five - Sort and Build Each Page (if possible take a picture)
You now have all you need to build your first scrapbook album. Organize the pages of your album with the photographs and embellishments. Use manila envelopes if necessary and number each one. The reason it is important to organize your photographs and embellishments now is so that when you go shopping you will have an idea about what you want on each of your pages. At this point you do not need to know where or how to place the pictures on each page. The only important information we want from this exercise is which pictures and home-embellishments we want to add on a certain page, what the general theme is and how many pages we will have. Its much easier to find what we want at the craft store or online when we have the base of our scrapbook album.


Scrapbooking for Beginners - Step Six - It's time to go shopping!
When you're shopping you'll want the following scrapbook supplies:
1. Pens, crayons, paints, fabric paints and markers for each page's note writing, picture drawing, and for wrting on fabric (if you use any in your scrapbook)
2. Backing to make mini frames on the page. Photographs can have a matte which can include cardboard, old greeting cards (my personal favorite's are the ones from the occasions the scrapbook is about), wrapping paper, felt board, or anything really.
3. Scrapbook album
4. Paper trimmer
5. Glue and tape
6. Paper - Different types of paper for the albums - Paper for the designs (like card stock, material, wax paper.. anything your imagination can come up with). Paper for the journal entries like stationary, index cards, plain black and white paper to cut out letters.
7. Scissors
8. Embellishments - stickers, material, beads, pressed flowers, sand, feathers, candy. Pretty much anything goes here. Each page is what your imagination makes it.
9. Stencils - Letter, number and design stencils
10. Page protectors - Make sure they are the correct size for the album


You can make your first album as elaborate, expensive, inexpensive, big, small. You can decorate the outside and inside. You can add hand prints from your kids. Let your imagination guide you. Have fun. Put little frames around photos. Cut out hearts and stick them on the photographs. Glue buttons, write on them.


The important part of scrapbooking is just beginning.


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15 Ways to Create Some Extra Holiday Money

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Originally this was going to be a list for my two teenagers but some of these ideas are better suited to adults with a valid driver's license and a bit of know-how. Some of these take a bit of planning and organizing, but most of them could be done on a fairly spur of the moment case by case basis. The great thing about a lot of these ideas is that you're spreading holiday cheer by helping to make someone else's otherwise stressful and overwhelming to-do list a little bit easier. Who wouldn't pay to have someone come do a few of these things for you? Mostly, what's important is that you remember to provide a quality item or service to the buyer with a smile on your face and in your heart. Have fun with these!

1. Baby-sit for people who need to do some Christmas shopping without their little ones tagging along. Anyone trustworthy who is over the age of about thirteen or fourteen can do this one. It's hectic enough to get in and out of the malls and shopping centers without having to drag toddlers along. Contact friends, family, coworkers, and members of your spiritual community to let them know that you're available for holiday babysitting. This can include time that the parents need to get away for office parties, charity events, and volunteering to help the elderly and less fortunate members of their community.

2. Grab a ladder and offer to clean leaves out of your neighbors' gutters. Many people are so busy during the summer months that they completely forget to clean all of the debris from their gutters when the sun is out and it's dry outside. It's cold and yucky outside now and many people are too busy to get to it themselves. They'll probably be glad that you offered and they can check it off of their to-do lists. This isn't one for the younger kids. However, they can offer to rake up the leaves in their neighbors' yards. Adults could offer to do both the gutters and the yard as one big project for a nice reasonable price. It could also be a father & son side business that you do together - while dad cleans the neighbors gutters, junior rakes up the leaves in the lawn.

3. Bake something amazing and offer to sell it to your friends and coworkers so they won't have to do their own holiday baking. You probably have to be careful about selling your baked goods to professional organizations and such, but you could do some sideline baking to help out your friends, neighbors, and coworkers who are going to be entertaining guests over the holidays and simply won't have the time to do their own baking. Have you got an awesome recipe that stands out as everyone's absolute favorite? It's the hit of every potluck? Make up some tiny sample sizes or bring it in to the office break room and serve up samples to your potential clients. Then while their mouths are watering, tell them that for a fee you'll bring them one to their home the day before their guests are to arrive. You'll have to work out the scheduling and cost of ingredients and such, but this could be a fun way to make some money and spread some serious joy. The hostess will be so pleased when she pulls your work of art out of the fridge and her guests ooh and ah over the scrumptious homemade dessert she didn't even have to bake herself.

4. Offer to collect people's empty soda cans and cash them in. My son raised almost $300 last spring doing this so that he could go to a training course to become a camp counselor for the little kids at our church. He went door to door offering to do yard work and most people just handed him bags and bags of pop cans they didn't want to take the time to cash in. He collected most of them over one weekend and then cashed them all in the following weekend. We live really close to a grocery store where he could walk to cash them in, so I didn't even have to get my car dirty with sticky soda drippings! This is a really good one for the younger kids to do.

5. Sell something on eBay. I know a number of people who make a decent second income all year round by digging around for antiques and such from the Goodwill and then fixing them, cleaning them up, and selling them for a much higher price on eBay. You have to know what to look for, but these folks will pick up an old pair of stereo speakers for $10 or $15 and then sell them on eBay for $200. The customer pays for shipping. You can also do this through garage sales, flea markets, and estate sells too. Most of the time and work goes into hunting for the cool treasures that someone will want to purchase.

6. Hang up people's outdoor Holiday lights for them. As a single mom, I would have loved it if someone had come to my house and hung the Christmas lights on my house for me. My children always wanted us to decorate the outside of the house and I hated not being able to do that for them. I didn't know the first thing about how to go about hanging them up. I didn't even own a ladder! So, I would think that you could go around offering to hang up people's outdoor holiday lights for a fee. It they are like me and don't even have lights but want to get some, you could offer your expertise as to which kind to buy and where to get the best prices and such.

7. Grab a broom or a shovel and offer to clean the neighborhood sidewalks. This is another good one for the younger teens. There's always sidewalks that need swept or shoveled. And there's always someone too busy or too tired to do it themselves.

8. Work a second job as seasonal help at one of the department stores in the mall. Most of the major department stores hire extra help in October or November so they can have them fully trained by the time the really busy holiday shopping season kicks in. They are kept on until after the inventory counts are done in January. Then most are let go if they haven't quit already. Those who have proven themselves to be quality employees will often be asked to stay on longer.

9. Sell something at holiday bazaars. I suspect that you have to get these kinds of events lined up ahead of time with a bit of preplanning and such, but plenty of folks make a decent seasonal income by selling cool arts and crafts type items at those holiday bazaars. Often a percentage of the sales goes towards a fundraiser, but you still make enough to make it worth your time and energy to create the art and to hang out at the art shows.

10. Sell your plasma. We all know how important it is to donate blood during the holidays, but many people don't know that you can get paid for sitting through a procedure quite similar to the donation process. The difference is that they run your blood through a machine that separates the plasma from the red blood cells and puts the red blood cells back into your body. It take longer and I guess that's why they are willing to pay you for your time. Years ago, I used to do this when my kids were really little and we needed some extra money for upcoming birthdays and such. They wouldn't let you do it more than once a week or so and they only paid about $25 each time, so you had to plan ahead if you were going to raise $100 or $200 for something you wanted to purchase. Contact your local Red Cross or other blood donation centers for help finding the plasma centers.

11. Clean houses for others who have holiday guests coming. Typically, if someone has out of town guests coming for the holidays, they have a lot more on their to-do list then just cleaning their toilets and shampooing the carpets. You could become a real lifesaver for those in a crunch who are too busy, too old, or too tired to do a thorough deep cleaning before the guests arrive. Some might even hire you again to clean up after the guests leave too! Teens can do this just as easily as the adults can.

12. Run errands and do odd holiday jobs like wrapping gifts or delivering packages to the post office. You could start a little side business where all you do is run other people's errands for them. Drop off and pick up the dry cleaning. Take their pet to the vet. Deliver cupcakes to the charity fundraiser. Pick up a handful of gift certificates from national department stores that will later be mailed out. Address and stamp their Christmas cards for them. Do their grocery shopping. Pick up new printer cartridge and some desk calendars for them. It's all of those tiny little errands that make for frazzled schedules and crazy timelines. For a fee, you could do it for them.

13. Decorate the inside of people's homes or offices for the holidays. You don't have to be a professional interior decorator to be helpful. If you've got a reputation as having a good eye for attractive and festive decorating, you can help others to set up their trees, hang garland, and place some nice poinsettia here and there. You can help make people's homes and their office space a warm inviting environment and also include coming back after the holidays to break it all down into to storage containers as part of the deal. I hate tearing down the decorations and would love to pay someone to put it all back away!

14. Cater some dinners for the extremely busy shoppers or for Holiday parties. Those who are not awesome cooks need not apply for this one! Let's say that your boss is having the annual company Christmas party at his house and his wife is swamped with running kids back and forth to choir concerts and peewee football camp while shopping and planning for her in-laws who will be flying in to visit only three days after her husband's company party at her house!!! You could offer to cook and cater the event for her. You'd once again be making someone else's holiday season so much easier while earning extra money for yourself. Decide in advance on a menu and who's purchasing the ingredients needed. Then all you have to come up with is a dollar figure for your time and grandma's secret recipe for those little mini-cakes that everyone loves so much.

15. Chauffer someone's children to and from school and other activities so the parents have some free time. This isn't quite the same as babysitting. You'd be amazed at how much time a person can spend picking up and driving two or three kids to different events and hauling musical instruments and sporting gear from one event to the next. You could simply run a taxi service for children and teenagers who need rides from point A to B. You don't have to hang out and watch them once they get there. Just make sure they arrive on time. Even just having an afternoon at home to cook and clean house while someone else gathers up all of the kids and brings them all home could make a world of difference for someone.

As you can see, some of these services could easily be turned into a year-round side job or they could be dropped as soon as the holidays are over. Perhaps you'll find that you love catering people's meals, you love refurbishing antiques, or you love running errands and taxiing others around from place to place. You could go into business for yourself and by next year, you could quit your 'real job' and be happily self-employed. Then again, your teenager could discover how much time and work it takes just to raise enough money for some generous Christmas shopping. After learning the value of a dollar earned, they might decide that college is a good idea after all!

Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge







Bible Coloring Pages

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Do you wish to imbibe in your child values and morality that makes us good human beings? Then definitely you have to tell him fables, tales and also Biblical stories. Children do have a tendency to fall in love with God immediately as they are angels and they are innocent who understands the language of love, kindness and mercy of God. For that off course you don't have to buy Biblical images or images of God, Jesus, Holy Cross, Mother Mary and similar images. The Bible coloring pages will bring forth numerous images related to Bible and popular fables.

You might have heard of alphabet color pages that are used to teach preschool kids and toddlers. They are taught alphabets and relate them with their surroundings. Similarly the Biblical coloring pages are there too for getting direct print from your computer and show them to your children. The world of web has been really delightful in these matters. You can find ready made color pages in hundreds of styles and colors that also contain Biblical themes, stories like Noah's Ark, the Whale, miracles of Jesus, about the birth of baby Jesus, Mother Mary, Easter, Gift of Magi and alike. The use of these coloring sheets is perfect to teach preschool children the values and morals of Christianity, the true meaning of religion and how to become pious.

Coloring Pages Create Interest

Simple narration of Biblical stories may not create interest in them. But stories accompanies by colorful visual medium like Biblical coloring pages would strike their imagination and they would be able to related the narrations well with pictures. The color pages usually make perfect alphabet games as they come in funny shapes or associated with things children love like doggy, monkey, fairy, flowers, garlands, cartoon characters and others. Children love such visual medium and the Biblical pages too can be used to teach them various things.

The different types of Biblical coloring pages are - Abraham Coloring Sheets, Cain and Abel Color Pages, Adam and Eve Color Pages, Creation Color Pages, Easter Color Pages, David (and Goliath) Color Pages, Jacob and Esau Color Pages, Hannah and Samuel Color Pages, Noah's Ark Color Pages, Moses Color Pages, Ruth and Naomi Color Pages, Samson and Delilah Coloring Sheets, Old Testament Color Pages and to name a few.

These coloring pages are for the younger crowd and they also love to have a look at the coloring pages of stories told to them by mummy, grandmother, father or other people. These color pages have the finest quality print and perfect drawings to impart the impression of Jesus, his miracles, his love for children, his soft spoken words, love for enemies, prayers for all and taking the burden of sin of all mortals. The coloring pages are constantly developed by artists to provide more artistic and realistic look of the pictures.

Every artist tries his label best to create variations and endeavor to cover as many more interesting characters and drawings to related to Biblical characters. Such extensive drawing and images of Jesus with children, people, the animals, and other characters help children learn the teachings of Bible fast and also they imbibe in them the best traits of humans.

Various simple Biblical coloring book pages actually celebrate the life of Jesus Christ and the apostles pages show Christ in different ages of - adolescent, youth, adult and his ending days. The parables pages are good coloring pages to relate with the stories of Bible.

What is the use of Biblical Coloring Pages?

The Biblical coloring pages are extension of Crafts, Bible Preschool Activities that are suitable for preschool, toddlers, Kindergarten school holiday homework and other activities. Moreover they tend to put in the children the values of education, morality, humanity, and love for fellow human beings, nature, animals and all beautiful creations of God. They understand the existence of everything in this world and also develop love for fellow children, learn how to live happily with content.

Besides the general biblical theme coloring sheets the other types of coloring sheets that can also be considered biblical coloring pages are - Angel Color Pages, Christmas Color Pages, and New Testament Color Pages.

How to Get the Coloring Pages?

The coloring sheets related to Bible and others are easily available over the internet. They are available from different sources. As you enter the site you will find hundreds of such pages that are meant for printing. Just click on the image you wish to print. A new window opens you find the full view of the pages. Now go to the option Print in the File Menu and command 'Print'. The printer connected to your computer or laptop would print the page/s. Once you are done, close the window. It is that simple.

You can find hundreds of such useful coloring pages with biblical themes, alphabetical games and more variations for preschool kids. However mind that you would need good configuration of system and good printer quality with perfect cartridge for fine print quality. Also make sure that you command the fine print or best print for your printer while printing the biblical pages for best results and perfect line drawing.

Are Biblical Coloring Pages Free?

Yes, absolutely, there are so many websites there that offer biblical pages for free. But with free option you would get limited number of pages. If you opt for paid services for coloring sheets, you would get access to the finest drawings and large number of options to choose from for printing.

Search for membership plans in paid site. Some membership plans offer you unlimited printing of Biblical color pages and others such pages in a year or two. You can print same picture as many times as you wish after saving it in your computer. The plans may allow you get unlimited downloads of coloring pages for your kid. Kids actually enjoy learning from an early age, only you should know how to teach them. Make their teachings and learning of moral values interesting and enthralling with such biblical coloring pages.








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Benjamin Boutell, A True Son of Michigan

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A flat-bottomed boat lazed along the river's bank on a summer day in 1860. An observer could be forgiven for not realizing the lone occupant was a youth who would grow to dominate two Michigan industries, log towing and sugar manufacturing and foster a number of companies in other industries that would add immeasurable wealth to Michigan's developing economy.

The skiff bobbed in a ceaseless to-and-fro motion, influenced by waves that washed against the bank and then receded in accordance with the movement of steamers and sloops that churned the Saginaw River's channel. Its skipper, sixteen-year-old Benjamin Boutell, sighed in sleepy contentment. The rocking motion of the river lulled him deeper into slumber as he basked in the sun's warmth, dreaming of sea adventures in which he was the central figure.

He did not hear the sounds of sawing and hammering, the hailing of ships from shore, and other boisterous dock activity common to Bay City, Michigan in 1860. In ten years, the city's population had exploded from a mere fifty souls to more than three thousand, with more arriving each day from Canada or Detroit to take jobs in one of fifteen sawmills clustered on the riverbank. Before the lumber drew to a close forty years later, thirty thousand people would call Bay City home and more than one hundred sawmills lined the riverbanks from Bay City to Saginaw, twelve miles distant.

His father, Daniel Boutell, owned one of the hotels situated within hailing distance at the southeast corner of Water and Third streets. Not long before it had been the Sherman House. Situated across from the Detroit Steamboat Company's landing, it was often the first stop for newcomers to the city. Daniel Boutell had moved his family thirty miles north from Birch Run to take over the hotel, and after extensive renovations hung a new shingle near the entrance. Now it was the Boutell House, a home away from home for Great Lakes sailors who were made to feel more like family guests than hotel patrons because many of the Boutells' nine children shared the hotel with them

Fascinated by the stories the sailors told, Ben grew to love the river and the great Saginaw Bay, the doorway to the Great Lakes, a doorway he planned to pass through one day. Meanwhile, he earned his way by remaining on call to the Protection Fire Company where he served as first assistant foreman and helped his father at the hotel where he badgered sailors with questions about schooners, sloops, barges, and tugboats. An infectious grin and a sincere interest loosened tongues of sailors who enjoyed Ben's enthusiasm; they gladly shared accounts of their adventures and knowledge of all things nautical.

Having learned much about the nature of goods that moved from port to port on the Great Lakes, he began to pay special attention to the movement of logs towed by powerful tugboats. The task of moving felled trees to mills situated in one of the state's principal sawmill towns, Saginaw, Bay City, or Muskegon, was critical to the success of the timber industry. Water transport provided the least costly solution. Logs carved from Michigan's forests were floated downstream, collected at river mouths, sorted into floating corrals, called "booms," and towed by tugboats to sawmills that lined the river from Saginaw to Bay City. From forests along Canada's Georgian Bay shoreline, tugboats towed booms containing thousands of logs across Lake Huron and into the Saginaw Bay for shipment to waiting sawmills.

Tugboat captains faced many perils: sudden storms that would threaten to shatter the delicate lacing of logs that formed the boom, shipboard disasters, exploding boilers, and fires that could leave crews abandoned to chilling water far from rocky shores. The idea of taking the helm of such a craft fired the imagination of the hotelkeeper's son.

His ambition gained impetus in his twenty-first year when fire destroyed the Boutell House. Dan Boutell fought the blaze until only smoldering rubble remained. His lungs seared by smoke, he declined in health until death claimed him the following year. The family's livelihood in peril, Ben immediately signed on as a full-time sailor on the steam tug Wave. Within the year, he was the Wave's mate and in the following year earned papers conferring upon him the responsibilities of a ship's master.

As Captain Boutell, he assumed command of the Ajax, a steam tug that had lately become the property of the First National Bank of Bay City. The bank had acquired it in the manner banks often acquire assets - via defaulted notes. The twenty-two-year-old novice captain enlisted the aid of an engineer named Samuel Jones, whose salary, like the captain's, was conditional upon the ship's revenue, and a cook he addressed with affection as Aunt Kitty and who possessed both an impressive girth and a disposition for adventure. Ben, Jones, and Aunt Kitty ran the tug that fall with Ben handling with equal ease mundane chores such as cutting wood for its boiler and management of the boat's business. The trio cleared for the owners $6,000 (about $84 thousand in 2009 dollars), giving the young captain a reputation as a can-do ship's master with a first-rate knowledge of the Great Lakes.

Bold competence won the attention of Captain William Mitchell, master of the tug Union. Mitchell admired the rangy youth with the engaging smile whose energy seemed to expand to meet any challenge. The two became fast friends and business partners, acquiring over time a fleet of tugboats, barges, schooners, and freight haulers that eventually numbered more than fifty. Boutell organized great rafts containing as much as four million board feet of lumber, making him the single greatest hauler of timber of the lumber era. Altogether, log rafting and other towing work for his tugs employed the services of five hundred people. He counted himself among them. Even as his assets and his reputation grew, he stayed on at the helm of one tug or another, five years alone as captain of the Annie Moiles, until finally responsibilities created by his rapidly growing wealth kept him on shore.

Although Ben never left behind the boy who probed the riverbanks aboard a small skiff, the capital he amassed as boat owner and captain on Lake Michigan, Lake Superior, Lake Huron, and the Georgian Bay would eventually generate additional fortunes. When Ben Boutell, William Mitchell, and future partner, Peter Smith linked themselves to the lumber industry they had tied themselves to a star that would rise but a little distance before flaming out. When the white pine forests melted under the onslaught of axes and saws, the need for Boutell's tugs disappeared. For a time it was his plan to continue where he had begun, hauling logs from Canada. However, prohibitive duties ended any hope of profiting from Canadian timber. With a sinking heart, Ben, who once transported an average of one hundred million board feet of timber in a season, watched his boats loiter at the docks.

So it was that Captain Benjamin Boutell, in 1897, at the age of fifty-three, found himself wealthy, but unemployed and eager for new opportunities. Though he no longer was the trim youth that inspired legends, he was still affable, easy-going, and, as always, attired in rumpled clothing. A shaggy moustache was all that was remained of a once prominent beard, and though he paid close attention to the weekly sermon at the Madison Avenue Methodist Episcopal Church, he peppered his speech with impious phrases that would have brought deep furrows to its minister's features had they been uttered in his presence. A general portliness, the outcome of too many dinners prepared under the direction of Amelia, his wife of nearly thirty years, robbed him of his once athletic build. Though the body had become rounder, fuller, and less capable of single-handedly managing a schooner's rigging, the inquisitive youth was still present in eyes that sparkled at the suggestion of adventure.

With the passing of the lumber era, some thirty years after Ben towed his first raft of logs, many who had garnered riches in Michigan's forests departed, carrying their wealth to distant cities. Ben Boutell stayed put, reinvesting most of his wealth in Michigan. He opened his mind to possibilities in many industries. Knowing little about any of them, insatiable curiosity guided his direction. Soon, he owned major shares of coalmines, shipping companies, machinery shops, cement factories, banks, a telephone company, foundries, and sugar factories. His interests spanned the country from Boston where he owned sea-going barges to Redwood City, California, where he co-founded that state's first Portland cement factory. He eventually served as an officer or director in thirty-two companies, nine of them in Michigan's beet sugar industry. He also co-founded the Colorado and Canadian beet sugar industries, presiding over two sugar companies in Colorado and serving on the boards of two Canadian companies that later became the foundation for the Canadian-Dominion Sugar Company. Additionally, he owned large farms where he grew sugarbeets as well as a 4,000-acre ranch in the state's northern reaches.

His sugar interests alone would have been enough to keep two or three executives busy year around. No single individual in Michigan devoted as much of his wealth and time to the state's evolving sugarbeet industry as did Captain Benjamin Boutell. He was one of the founders of Michigan's first beet sugar company, Michigan Sugar Company, where he served as a director and vice-president. He served in similar capacities at the Bay City Sugar Company. He co-founded the Saginaw Sugar Company where he served as treasurer and held a directorship. He was president of the Lansing Sugar Company and treasurer of the Marine City Sugar Company and held directorships in the Mount Clemens, Carrollton, and Menominee sugar companies.

The vast Sugar Trust, an organization that held the country's supply of sugar in a steel grip for decades did not have his support. As the Trust grew in power, he sold his stock in companies that fell under its control and invested in independent companies, maintaining distance from a form of business organization that was losing favor in America.

Captain Boutell commanded the deck of sailing sloops and boardrooms with equal ease, routinely making investments that impelled the formation of companies employing hundreds. But, when he passed through the portal of his home, he entered a matriarchal society governed by his wife, Amelia, and her identical twin sister, Cornelia.

Amelia Charlotte Duttlinger and her sister were born in Cleveland, Ohio in 1850 or 1851. Tragedy came early to the twins. Their father died when they were three-months old, causing their mother, Catharine, to move to Bay County. There, she operated a hotel with the aid of the twins when they were old enough, two servants, and a bartender. Among the guests in 1869 was Ben Boutell, a dashing young sailor who at twenty-four had already become the stuff of legends and a man of means. That he was a catch surely did not escape the notice of Amelia and Cornelia, or their widowed mother.

Amelia was possessed of a genial personality and good looks and although physically identical to her twin sister, she somehow presented a difference to Ben. Perhaps it was friendlier disposition and an unwary attitude that brought merriment to her eyes and the kind of smile that will linger in a man's memory. Her auburn hair cascaded long and full across her shoulders, ending in ringlets that bounced with each step she took.

Cornelia seemed, by comparison, more guarded and often critical of the hotel's guests, many of whom fell short of her rigid standards of dress and deportment. Amelia's non-stop references to Ben began to sound like wedding bells to Cornelia. She hinted at a budding love affair of her own.

The courtship was brief, shaped by the busy schedule of a Great Lakes seaman. The two were in love and although the term had yet to come into usage, they were soul mates. Each had lost a father at a young age, each had spent formative years bearing adult responsibilities assisting in the operation of a hotel, and each aspired to a life measured in achievement. The marriage occurred on December 22, 1869, after the sea lanes closed for the winter. Ben and Amelia looked forward to a long honeymoon that would end when the Great Lakes thawed in March.

Before the honeymoon was over, however, Cornelia, in great distress, landed on their doorstep to recuperate from a tragic turn of events in her love life. After that, the sisters became inseparable; one would go nowhere without the other. At Amelia's insistence, Ben bought two of everything, coats, dresses, and hats monogrammed to identify the twin to whom it belonged. In a nod of acceptance of the permanence of Cornelia's presence in their lives, he named one of his ore-carrying barges "Twin Sisters." The twin he loved he called "Meil".

The only distinction between the twins was a small mole on Amelia's neck behind one ear. Ben, however, possessed a secret method for distinguishing one from the other: Amelia's features generally depicted contentment while Cornelia's aspect was sour and irritable. The birth of three sons, Frederick, William, and Bennie, gave special purpose to Amelia's life while supervision of their development into cultured gentlemen in the coarse riverside lumber town became a special mission for Cornelia. She had surrendered any hope of doing the same for her brother-in-law. His bulk combined with restlessness made every delicate object within his reach vulnerable to breakage; teacups, spectacles, jewelry clasps, and fine furniture seemed to fracture and break in his presence.

The sisters determined that the time had come for the captain to establish a residence sized and embellished in a manner that properly announced the breadth of his life's achievements. At their behest, he purchased four contiguous lots in Bay City on Fifth and Madison Streets, a block off Center Avenue. Today, Center Avenue reveals a spectacular display of late nineteenth and early twentieth century residential architecture for which it has won a place on the National Register of Historic Places. For Bay City's prominent citizens in the 1890's and the next half-century, it was the right place to live. Lumbermen and leaders in beet sugar, coal, shipbuilding, and other industries built stylish homes that reflected their substantial fortunes.

Phillip C. Floeter, a distinguished architect who had a few years earlier designed the Trinity Episcopal Church was engaged to draw up the plans and then build a mansion calculated to dwarf Center Avenue homes in both magnitude and ornamentation.

Floeter imported Italian tile and marble for eleven fireplaces and ordered substantial quantities of mahogany, maple, birch, and pine for both the house and interior paneling. The parlor showed Ben's love of the Great Lakes. It was in the shape of the bow of a boat, and at the far end stood a floor-to-ceiling mirror flanked on each side by tall, mirrored cabinets. Another tribute to the Great Lakes-bright stones carried from Lake Erie and installed within a front looking gable--attracted the attention of passers-by. Panels covered the interior walls to a height of five feet with the area above them covered first with canvas and then decorated with gold leaf. Lighting fixtures were made of sterling silver.

In addition to storage rooms, the basement contained a kitchen and dining rooms where Ben entertained business associates and friends who preferred to puff on cigars while paying Bacchic tribute to one another, activities prohibited elsewhere on the premises. Two private balconies opened off bedrooms on the second floor, and a first-floor porch ran the full length of two sides of the house. From that vantage point, one could glimpse the river and hear the sigh of sloops passing in the night. The house was painted green with white trim--with marine paint, of course. A large barn, which housed four driving horses and a carriage, stood behind the house.

Boutell was low-keyed. He avoided the limelight often favored by business executives and community leaders, foregoing speeches, the holding of public office or any of the other trappings that accompany success. Compared to those who mounted pulpits or appeared before Bay City's business and social groups, Benjamin was bashful, almost retiring. With the exception of his mansion, a concession to his wife to whom he refused nothing, he avoided public displays of wealth. He was more likely to give encouragement to children who congregated on his spacious lawn where he built a toboggan slide for them, than to engage in politics and more likely to spend time with his family than at business conventions.

January in the Saginaw Bay region is a cold time. The ice thickens on the bay and the river's pace slows to a crawl and then finally stops altogether. Each day brings forewarning of colder days to come as winter settles in to hold the region in a cold embrace until spring. It was 1902 and Bay City was no longer imprisoned by frozen waterways five months of each year; railroads now allowed travel to those places where Ben did business. He took frequent advantage of them to travel within the United States and Canada where he attended boards of directors meetings and shareholder meetings or to appraise new investment opportunities.

When he returned from one such excursion in late January 1902, he entered his home where he found Amelia and Cornelia together in the sitting room. Cornelia's hands were busy knitting a shawl, one of many gifts she and Amelia made throughout the year for family and church members. Amelia's hands were in her lap, one folded over the other, an unusual posture for Amelia, who, like Ben, was generally busy from dawn to dusk.

Something else captured his attention, sending a cold shiver along his spine. The twins were no longer identical! True, their dresses, as always, were the same, fashionable Edwardian afternoon dresses, black, and in keeping with strait-laced Methodist views, unadorned with jewelry. Each now wore her hair pulled back tightly and secured in a chignon at the back of the head. But, Amelia's features had changed during the few weeks he had been away, or at any rate, he noticed an accumulation of changes that had escaped his attention when he saw her each day.

She had lost weight, her face was drawn and narrow; her shoulders sloped as if in defeat, and, worst of all, the luster had left her eyes. He swung his head to his left and noticed a pair of kid gloves sitting on the hallstand and droplets of moisture on the floor. Despite their settled appearance, he guessed the two had reached home shortly before him and had hurriedly arranged themselves to deceive him into believing they had been there the daylong. Knitting needles flashed in Cornelia's busy hands. Her gaze flew first to Amelia, and then to Ben. Amelia made as if to rise to greet her husband but Ben, seeing her distress, rushed across the small space between them and took her in his arms.

He summoned specialists to her side and took her to those who could not visit her at home. She grew worse. Cancer was the sixth cause of death in Michigan in that period, behind tuberculosis, heart disease, pneumonia, cholera, and influenza. Despite Ben's ferocious efforts to save her, she grew steadily worse.

By Thanksgiving, Ben realized Amelia understood the end was near. He drew his chair close to her bed when with a frail motion she beckoned him to draw close. With a voice too thin to travel more than a few feet, she made known her final wishes. Cornelia, she reminded him, had been a part of her life from the moment of her birth and a part of Ben's from the moment of his marriage. She implored him to marry Cornelia to protect the family's wealth which would be threatened with division or total loss in the event Benjamin married another. Marry, Cornelia, she said, and it all stays together where it belongs.

She gripped Ben's hand with the little strength that remained and asked that he promise her now. In thirty-three years of marriage, Ben had yielded to her every wish; he saw no reason to demur now. He made the promise, then smiled and told her it was an easy promise to make because she would be right as rain by Christmas, at the latest!

Amelia died five days later on November 25, 1902. Ben kept his deathbed vow and married Cornelia fourteen months later on February 11, 1904.

Ben increased the pace of his activities, forming companies, expanding others, and devoting additional time to community projects, such as the founding of the YMCA and the YWCA, serving as a church trustee, and giving freely of his time and money to local needs.

In April 1912, he attended a meeting of the stockholders of Wallaceburg Sugar Company in Wallaceburg, Ontario. At the meeting's conclusion, he arrived at the railway station in Chatham for the return trip just as the engine was warming. Black smoke billowed from the smokestack. The chugging engine seemed to shout Hurry! Hurry! The conductor, impatient to have a last-second boarder, leaned forward as if to remove the small wooden step used by passengers to board the train. Ben broke into a lope. Just as he grasped the bar that would allow him to swing aboard, the train suddenly lurched forward. He held on with one hand, scrambling to board but lacked the strength to complete the maneuver. He loosened his grip and fell to the platform. At first, he believed himself no more than badly shaken. Upon returning home, he began to feel discomfort, then pain, then agony. Within a short time, he fell into a semi-conscious state from which he drifted into death on October 26, 1912.

When Benjamin Boutell passed into history, Michigan lost a member of a cadre of daring men and women born near the time the state came into existence. He injected vigor and a risk-taking attitude into the frontier state making of himself a pioneer on the Great Lakes and in Michigan's farm fields and in the fostering of several industrial concerns. When Michigan faced economic distress during the phasing out of the lumber industry, he ignored safer paths and plunged instead, into new industries that expanded economic opportunity in Michigan's smaller cities at the risk of uncertain financial return for himself while others in his situation carried profits won in Michigan to distant, safer harbors, New York, Cleveland, and Boston. For that alone, he is remembered as a true son of Michigan.

Sources:

Butterfield, George, Bay County Past and Present, Centennial Edition, George Butterfield, Board of Education, Bay City, Michigan ,1957, pages 117, 195 (photo of mansion), 89, 118, and 142.

Gansser, Augustus, History of Bay County, MI and Representative Citizens, Richmond & Arnold, Chicago, IL, 1905, pages 491-2.

Gutleben, Dan, The Sugar Tramp - 1954, Bay Cities Duplicating Co, San Francisco, California, 1954.

Mansfield, J. B. History of the Great Lakes, Vol 1, Freshwater Press, Cleveland, Ohio, 1972

Evening Press, West Bay City, Bay, MI, Friday, 26 Nov 1880, relating to the death of Benjamin Boutell's mother.

Cyclopedia of Michigan: Historical and Biographical Synopsis of General History of the State and Biographical Sketches of Men who have, in their various spheres, contributed toward its development., Western Publishing and Engraving Co., New York and Detroit, 227-8, 230-1, Bay City Public Library, Bay, Michigan

History of the Great Lakes with Illus., J. H. Beers & Co., Chicago, 1899. Vol. II, pages 18-22.

INFLATION ADJUSTMENTS: The pre-1975 data are the Consumer Price Index statistics from Historical Statistics of the United States (USGPO, 1975). All data since then are from the annual Statistical Abstracts of the United States. Recorded at http://www.westegg.com/inflation

MICHIGAN ANNUAL REPORTS, Michigan Archives, Lansing, Michigan








?2009 Thomas Mahar All Rights Reserved.

About the Author:

Thomas Mahar served as Executive Vice President of Monitor Sugar Company between 1984 and 1999 and as President of Gala Food Processing, a sugar packaging company, from 1993-1998. He retired in 1999 and now devotes his free time to writing about the history of the sugar industry. He authored, Sweet Energy, The Story of Monitor Sugar Company in 2001.

Contact: Thomas Mahar E-mail tkmahar@aol.com

This blog provides a history for each of the 24 beet sugar factories constructed in Michigan beginning in 1898 and ending in 1920 and many Michigan pioneers in the state's sugar industry.


Festive Fun by the Canals and Rivers

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The most magical time of the year is fast approaching, so avoid the urge to spend your Christmas hibernating indoors and head towards your local waterway to see all the fun that's on offer.


There are plenty of family activities in store along the canals and rivers this year, from Christmas cruises to craft fairs. Why not take the kids to see Santa's grotto out on the water, or enjoy an xmas lunch thats been prepared by someone else for a change!


So don your woolly hat and scarf, warm your cockles with a glass of mulled wine, and pay a visit to some of these fantastic events...


London and South East


Christmas at Museum in Docklands, London
This December head down to the London Docklands where the Museum in Docklands has organised a programme of fun and festive activities for the family.


A Victorian Festival of Christmas, Hampshire
Guarantee yourself a white Christmas this year by visiting Portsmouth Historic Dockyard for its annual Victorian Festival of Christmas.


Chichester Canal Christmas boat trips, Sussex
Enjoy a relaxing boat trip along the Chichester Canal and meet the much-loved Father Christmas!


Christmas light switch-on at Chichester Canal Basin, Sussex
Get into the festive mood and watch the Christmas lights get switched on at Chichester Canal basin.


Christmas illuminated boat procession, Northamptonshire
Watch the Grand Union Canal light up with a Christmas illuminated boat procession at Stoke Bruerne's Waterways Museum.


Victorian Christmas at Royal Gunpowder Mills, Essex
The River Lee-based Royal Gunpowder Mills will once again play host to a traditional Victorian Christmas.


South West


Santa cruises from the NWM, Gloucestershire
Jump on board Santa's floating grotto and receive a present during special Christmas cruises from the National Waterways Museum, Gloucester Docks.


Christmas wreath & decoration workshop, Devon
Join the countryside rangers at the Grand Western Canal and make a selection of Christmas wreaths and decorations using natural materials.


Christmas carols at Devizes Wharf, Wiltshire
Enjoy a night of festive carols under the Christmas tree at Devizes Wharf.


Christmas party cruises from Gloucester Docks, Gloucestershire
Celebrate Christmas in style with a special disco party cruise along the Gloucester & Sharpness Canal, on board King Arthur.


West Midlands


Search for Santa, Worcestershire
Board the Dream Catcher passenger vessel to search for Santa in Tardebigge Canal Tunnel.


Santa in the crystal mines, Worcestershire
Take a magical voyage by boat to see Santa in his underground workshop.


Coventry Canal Christmas art fair, Warwickshire
Make a start on your xmas shopping and see if you can find that special gift at this Coventry Canal Basin art fair.


Christmas performance at Stourbridge Bonded Warehouse, Worcestershire
The highly acclaimed Midlands Fretted Orchestra will be playing a Christmas concert at Stourbridge's canalside warehouse.


Father Christmas visits Galton Valley Heritage Centre, Staffordshire
Treat the kids with a trip to Santa's canalside grotto.


East Midlands


Christmas at Sawley Marina, Nottinghamshire
Sawley Marina will play host to two special Christmas weekends this December - guaranteed to put even the most avowed Ebenezer Scrooge into the Christmas spirit!


Scotland


Santa's coming to the Falkirk Wheel, Lowlands
Santa's inviting kids, young and old, to come and visit him at the Falkirk Wheel in the run up to the big night.


Santa at Broxburn, Lowlands
Come and join Santa onboard Bluebell for a trip along the Union Canal.


Santa at Linlithgow, Lowlands
Visit Santa's grotto and enjoy a boat trip on the Union Canal.


Santa trips on the Forth & Clyde Canal, Lowlands
Join Santa at Townhead Bridge for a cruise along the Forth & Clyde Canal.


Santa cruises with Re-Union, Lowlands
Come and join Santa and Re-Union for a cruise on the Union Canal.


Christmas lunch cruises, Lowlands
Come and join Linlithgow Union Canal Society for a three course Christmas lunch afloat.


Wales and Border Counties


Peak Forest Canal walk and festive lunch, Cheshire
Enjoy a walk along the Peak Forest Canal, followed by a hearty Christmas pub lunch.


Santa at Fourteen Locks Canal Centre, South west Wales
Children can meet Santa Clause this December when he visits Fourteen Locks Canal Centre.


Santa cruises on the Montgomery Canal, Shropshire
Enjoy a Christmas-themed Santa cruise along the Montgomery Canal, aboard the GW Buck narrowboat.


Yorkshire


Clarence Dock charity jog, Yorkshire
Join hundreds of Santas as they run, walk or jog around Clarence Dock in Leeds to raise money for British Heart Foundation.


Broads


Norfolk Broads Santa cruise, Norfolk
Enjoy family festive fun on the Norfolk Broads, with a Christmas cruise.


Father Christmas visits Fairhaven Woodland & Water Garden, Norfolk
Father Christmas and two of his reindeer will be handing out gifts to every child that visits his grotto.


Christmas bird-watching walk, Norfolk
Enjoy a three mile walk around Whitlingham Country Park, and look at the birds that call the park their home during Christmas.


Boxing Day guided walk, Norfolk
Walk off the excesses of Christmas with a tour of Fairhaven Woodland & Water Garden, with the head gardener.

Make Your Own Gift Basket - Gift Baskets Making Tips

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Aren't making gift baskets a lot of fun. I would completely dislike the idea of using prefabricated gift baskets, because they are not special at all. Just pause for a moment and think - would like a prefabricated basket, no would be the answer, and the same goes for everyone. We would like to share a few tips on gift basket making, these tips give up an up close view on how you can warp gift basket, theme thoughts for gift basket & gift basket crafting ideas. If you have search endlessly for the correct way of gift basket making then here is where your search ends.


The most important thing is to have an idea and then to make the idea reality. The person who is to receive this gift is herself/himself the guide. You gift basket theme can range from Get Well Soon, Sympathy, Birthday, Wedding Anniversary, Valentines Day, Thank You, New Baby Arrival, Congratulations, Retirement, Housewarming, Friendship Day, Wedding, Condolence, Mothers Day, Corporate Events, Fathers Day, Easter, Administrative Assistance Week, Bosses Day, Thanksgiving, Grandparents Day, & Christmas.


After you have finalized upon on a theme you can begin to shop or collect things for it. For instance If your are preparing for a mother's day gift basket then gift her a crafter's basket or if it's for your dad then buy him some nice sports gear with jogging shoes. At this moment the importance of knowing personal taste and dislikes come to fore. Frankly speaking knowing personal tastes is just half the job what you do after knowing all that matters more. Gifting an item that they long before wished for will make it their happiest moment possibly. Lets try to hit upon a couple of ideas that can be of help:


· Placing a silk scarf, earrings, broach, perfume, evening purse, belt, necklace, cosmetic accessories all these things will make any woman just love the gift. Those ladies who are techno savvy then iPOD covers, matching pens, colorful mobile accessories and many more would be the best gift for them.


· For school attending kids, there are innumerable things to keep them occupied and to keep them happy. Such things help moms keep their kids away from wasting time on needless activities. This way you are doing the mother a favor and the kids will also be able to expand his memory and skills. The gift basket should have game puzzles, Rubik's cube, DIY subjects for kids, word-search book, 3D puzzle, crossword puzzle book, jigsaw puzzle & puzzle books to solve, so you see there are many puzzles, and puzzle make kids think beyond their current knowledge levels.


· Pet lovers would be overjoyed if you gift something for their pets, they will feel as if you too have a liking for their pet. Make a pet gift basket and place some food dishes along with books on general pet care, pet toys like rubber mice, rubber ball, brush, collar, catnip ball, rawhide bone, dog brush, dog biscuits, dog collar, squeaky toy, leashes, pet blankets and other items that come to mind.

Personalized Gifts

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Personalized Gifts are the best gifts to express feelings towards a particular individual or to celebrate a special occasion. A personalized coffee mug, greeting card or even a simple photo frame grants a lot more pleasure than what an expensive present cannot give. Nothing helps people to remember a special day of their life just like a personalized gift does. It brings back all the emotions that were attached to a celebration or a ceremony.


Besides, personalized gifts definitely are additionally impressive as compared to usual gifts purchased from a shop. An individual gifting personalized gift in most cases can wait for a surprised reaction from the gifted person.


Gifts in reality are liked by everybody and to top it, if a personalized gift is presented, the impact is more. If a person is gifted something that is desired, then it displays care for the person's likes. But if a person is gifted with personalized present, then it displays extra touch of affection and concern for that person. There is definitely a difference. The latter gift makes the occasion more special and worthwhile to celebrate.


Personalized Gifts Ideas:


Personalized gifts have more significance, if given on occasions such as anniversary, birthday, weddings, Valentines Day, and friendship day. In fact, any occasion that speaks about love and human emotions needs to be ideally adorned with personalized gifts.


Numerous ways can be adopted to personalize a gift, so as to add a tinge of love and care. There is no rule that the gift has to be an expensive gift. Even a not so expensive gift can be personalized and can be made more precious in emotions than its monetary worth.


Personalized gift ideas vary as per the occasions, for instance during celebrating an anniversary, a person can gift a piece of jewelry bearing a personalized message on it. Lockets having the initials or name engraved on them are wonderful personalized gifts.


If the occasion is Valentine's Day, then a person can present a locket of heart shaped having photo of both the spouse on it. Bracelet or rings are also fine gifts, depicting the initials of the gifted person. These personalized gifts are usually cherished by the endowed people throughout their life.


On the occasion of wedding anniversary, the groom can gift the bride with photos of their wedding in a personalized photo frame. Besides, some other gift ideas include personalized coffee mug, a hat, a t-shirt or stationary items such as pen stand, and paperweight.


Customized T-shirts are the best for gifting during family re-unions. A person can customize the T-shirt to include a family photograph and some emotional message engraved on it. Besides, gifting the entire family with a family picture is a good and affordable gift item.


As discussed above, it is very simple to beautify every occasion with customized gifts. Gift for each event such as newborn baby presents, Christmas, father's day, Mother's day or birthday party can be personalized in simple ways.


One very useful idea is to include a card along with the gift, which needs to be handwritten with personal message. This is a very important tip, since there are gift that can be personalized by engraving personal dedication as such books or jewelry. But, there are also gifts, which cannot be lettered with personal message such as candies. A card in such case will make the gift look more personalized.


Personalized Christmas Gift Ideas:


Every year people celebrate Christmas and every year they are daunted with the task of buying the best Christmas gifts. Personalized Christmas gifts usually convey a specific message, since they are intended to add to the celebrations of this merrier festival.


Anything from a DVD full of pictures and music to a scrapbook are ideal for Christmas occasion. For a school kid, school satchels are the ideal gifts. These needs to be on the line of Santa Claus gift satchel. Add a photo of the gift receiver. Christmas is the time for celebration, and gifts form an integral part of it.


An innovative and artistic gift revealing the creativity of the person, who is gifting is also liked by the gifted person. Handmade cards expressing love or any other craft items can bestow a dash of distinction to the Christmas gift showers. An umbrella bearing a personalized message is also a fine option.

Parenting Advice - The Nuts and Bolts of Quality Time

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Contrary to popular notion, the best parent-child memories are not created out of major milestones marked with much celebration and fanfare. It's the little moments spent in doing things together that create beautiful memories - cherished and held close to the heart forever.


What constitutes quality time?


Both parents and children seem to agree that spending casual time (just being together, doing simple things like talking to each other or playing games together) is the best way to share meaningful time. The second most popular choice is participating in sports and other outdoor activities together. The winning ingredient throughout is personal interaction.


On the other hand, there are significant differences in the way fathers and mothers view meaningful time:


? Mothers tend to be more oriented towards informal interaction and instructive activities - Fathers lean towards athletic and event-type activities


? Mothers are more protective and engage their children in mostly social exchanges - Fathers are more willing to allow their kids to take risks during play


Finding Quality Together Time In The Little Things


The verdict is in, and is borne out by sociological evidence - children who receive lots of positive attention from their parents are more likely to develop a clear system of values and live satisfying and productive lives.


The process of developing a good parent-child relationship can and should start from the time the child is born. Here are some of the typical parent-child exchanges that occur during the different stages of a child's life - the kind that make meaningful moments and beautiful memories:


? For tiny tots - feeding time, bath time and playing peek-a-boo


? During the toddler stage - looking at picture books, playing on the floor or going for strolls


? For preschoolers - walks to and from the playground, visiting the library or just running around in the open


? For school-age kids - time spent on bike rides, playing ball etc.


? For teenagers - teenagers abhor hanging out with dad or mum - it is the source of much unnecessary angst. However, they enjoy spending time with their parents in activities like listening to music together


TIP: Making it a habit to have at least one meal a day together with your child can pay rich dividends as it provides you with the opportunity to stay connected and find out what's going on in your child's life.


Mother-Son, Mother-Daughter, Father-Son and Father-Daughter: Are They Distinct Relationships?


There is plenty of evidence that suggests fathers and mothers aren't interchangeable in their relationships towards their sons or daughter, though relationships between the four dyads of father-son, father-daughter, mother-son and mother-daughter are distinctly different.


That said, all children, whether boys or girls, need to have abundant positive interaction with both parents for overall personal and emotional development. Each distinct interaction, though dramatically different, offers different benefits and teaches different life-skills.


For all of you dads and mums out there looking for some special way to spend time with your sons or daughters - a few suggestions:


Father-Son Quality Time:


? Taking your son to watch the soccer or cricket finals live so that he can cheer his favorite team on beats watching the match on TV hands down


? Spend the weekend fishing or camping in the wilderness - just the two of you. The connection made using a rod, reel and bait can withstand most relationship vagaries later on. Besides, there'll be plenty of stories to regale others with for years to come


? Suggest a carpentry project that you can help him with - perhaps a gift for mum on mother's day?


? Teach your son to make periscopes, paper planes, reef knots and home-made go-karts. It's something that he will probably want to do with his own sons some day.


? Get him to help you wash down your bike or car at least once a week


Father-Daughter Quality Time:


? Spend the day on the beach. Helping her dig that long deep tunnel in the sand is sure to establish the feeling of "My daddy greatest" for a long, long time to come. If your daughter is old enough, help her build a gigantic sand castle instead.


? Take her to a stationery store and let her pick up some dainty writing paper that all girls so love to write on.


? How about an ice-cream after dinner - just you and her?


Mother-Son Quality Time


? Spend a few minutes every day trying to put together that 1000-piece double-sided puzzle featuring a crowd of people lying on the beach. Trying to figure out which piece goes where can make for many a hilarious moment


? Book ringside seats for the circus


? Spend the day at the planetarium or the aquarium. A science museum is a nice alternative


Mother-Daughter Quality Time:


? Attend stained glass painting or pottery classes together


? Do a craft or hobby together - it could be making balloon papier-m?ch? dolls, origami or even Christmas cards and Diwali/New Year stars


? An outdoor activity is a great way to spend time and enjoy a wonderful sunny day together


Remember:


? A child that lives with affection learns to love


? A child that lives with encouragement learns to be confident


? A child that lives with truth learns to be honest


? A child that lives with happiness learns to find joy and beauty in everything


Spending quality time together with your children is the best gift you can give them. No toy, irrespective of cost, can ever be a suitable alternative.

Mom and Daughter Matching Aprons

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When I was a little girl, my mom and I used to cook and bake together, wearing matching mom and daughter aprons. We used to make her favorite, Shepperd's Pie. It's sometimes these little memories that create the most impact and also create traditions in our lives.


I think that every child needs an apron for many reasons. Matching mom and daughter aprons or matching dad and son aprons create a special bond between parent and child especially when doing chores or crafts together. Having special aprons make baking or cleaning almost a special occasion, if cleaning can be a special occasion! It's motivational to have that "special gear" for a specific chore or craft.


Aprons help keep your child's clothes clean and looking great, especially all these new designs of clothes.


Aprons are not just for the kitchen anymore, when I was little if you were cooking it was an apron for anything else we called them smocks. Long gone are the days of using Dad's old shirt as a smock, today there are trendy and fashionable aprons that makes wearing them something very special.


There are many reasons to buy a child an apron, girl or boy. From cooking in the kitchen to working in the garage with dad, aprons have come back with fashion flair and wearing matching mom and daughter aprons will have your little one wanting to do her chores in her colorful matching apron.


An Apron for gardening is really great for kids. Not only will your gardening apron's keep your clothes clean, but they are functional as well. Most children's aprons, boys and girls, come with lots of pockets.


Your child will be able to hold all the tools they need for gardening and most importantly hold all those little things they find in the garden, just let's hope it's lots of rocks and no bugs! With matching aprons your child will want to help mom or dad in the garden.


Playtime is imagination time for children. Even the toughest of boys can play and pretend in the toy kitchen, pretending to be a chef or cook. Aprons protect your child clothes during playtime with the Play Dough, been there done that! There are many types of aprons that are designed for playtime, role playing as a mommy or daddy. Aprons are also made of different materials, even waterproof.


Doing crafts with the kids can one of the messiest things I know. Aprons designed for when kids are finger painting or gluing or just about anything is a great idea. Kids can mess away without having to worry about getting their clothes dirty, not that they worry, we do that all by ourselves. With a Craft apron, kids can have a great time doing the crafts they love.


Family Cleaning Day, do you remember how hard it was to get everyone to pitch in to help out getting the whole house cleaned, or getting a project done? Chances are that even your smallest, will love getting in on the family project when they have their own matching apron to proudly own and wear. They will be very excited and motivated to "get dressed" for the job and sometimes half the battle is over. When everyone is ready to go in the "cleaning apron", the chores become more organized. Family cleaning day could be cleaning the house or cleaning up the garage.


Instead of using an old shirt for a smock for school craft activities, using an apron is a great idea. They protect the child's clothes from glue, paint and other craft supplies. There are aprons designed specifically for crafts, you can even have your child's apron personalized with their name and give them a new sense of pride during those school activities. Craft aprons have lots of pockets and are even waterproof.


We can't leave the boys out! Even father's and son's can have matching aprons to get the job done together. There are matching handyman aprons or work belts that are perfect for the boys to work together around the house, yard, garage or even helping with the cars.


Saving the best for last, aprons in the kitchen. Not only can you get matching mother and daughter aprons but you can get matching mother and son aprons. You can even get matching chef's hats. What a great time you can have in the kitchen with your children making their favorite meal together or better yet my favorite, Chocolate Chip Cookies. Kids want to look the part.


Cooking and baking together as a family can easily become a family tradition during the holiday's such as Christmas or even coloring Easter eggs at Easter. So Mom and Daughter and Father and Son can all have their matching aprons and make a truly traditional family meal.

Fatherhood - What to Give to Dad?

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Fathers can be hard to buy for. Some are up for a new tie every year because they have a white collar job, but you CAN have too many ties. Most dads would never say to your face that they are unhappy with a gift or that they would have rather had something else, especially if the gift is from their child. Father's Day plaques? These are the things that start appearing when your children become 'tweens, until you have such a collection that you need a huge box just to put them in. Not only do you get them for Father's Day, but for every other annual celebration.


So, what do you suggest they get instead? You don't suggest they GET anything. You help them MAKE it! Older children can go online and find famous Father's Day quotes or poems, FREE printable cards and any number of more adult home-made gifts. Dad will appreciate them taking the time to find the perfect sentiment to put on that card or on a t-shirt, ball cap or license plate. Even a bowling towel or fishing hat can be personalized with something that will mean the world to Dad.


When it comes to gifts from the little ones in Dad's life, nothing beats home made with smudges, gobs of glue, wrinkles and all. When it comes to these gifts, you are only limited by your imagination, but everyone can use some help on ideas. They will, of course, probably bring home something from school, but it will have been made fairly quickly and that is not quite the same as making Dad stay out of the kitchen or out of your child's room while he or she makes him a surprise. I found a few sites that offer tons of ideas and instruction on how to make the perfect gift for Dad. And you don't need to just use them for Father's Day. Your kids can make them for birthdays, anniversaries, special occasions, Christmas...or just because. He will treasure them always and your children's hearts will swell with pride at their accomplishment. Another upside is the cost. Most of these gifts are big on heart but small on price.


The first site is familyfun.go.com, a Disney site. You can make luggage tags for the Dad that travels or pads and paperweights for the Dad that has an office. You can make a BBQ apron that is completely personalized with hand prints or a painted picture. You can even make a tie-tack out of Sculpey clay. And the cards....there are tons of card ideas for everyone from the youngest to the oldest and all of those kids in between. Don't know what to do with a rainy afternoon or bored kids when school is out for the summer? Go through these ideas and stock up on some of the supplies so that you always have ideas and craft materials on hand.


Another great site is crafts.kaboose.com, produced by KABOOSE™. Here you will find a bunch of Father's Day printable ideas. You can print on anything from cards to coffee cups to t-shirts and hats. Many of these printable pictures allow your children to color them in, making them even more personalized. The site features office crafts, sports & games crafts, wearable crafts and decorative home-made gifts. One word of advice: all of these sites have to use advertisers to stay up and running. This particular one has big-name advertisers that have a video commercial in the upper right hand corner. If it drives you nuts, you can just click on the "sound" icon at the bottom of the video box and the sound will be muted so that you don't have to hear it.


Finally, this site has so much more than just Father's Day gifts: artistshelpingchildren.org. There are coloring pages, how-to-draw tutorials, paper folding, murals and even crafts made from recyclables. Yes, you'll find plenty of ideas for Father's Day, like the Big Fish Pencil Holder or the Magazine Holder Rack, but there are also gifts for Mom, or other girls in your life, like sewing boxes, a recipe book or stationery holder. If you can't find something here, then you might want to go back to the original gift idea...a tie.


Dad will melt when faced with the proudly smiling face of one of his children presenting him with a homemade gift. The quality of these gifts is much higher than they will probably make at school and it can be a perfect time for some quality time with each of your children as you help them to craft that gift for Dad. That means both of you will have received a rare gift from your child, and though the cost will be minimal, the rewards will be priceless.

Scrapbooking Ideas - 7 Scrapbooking Projects For Kids

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When you think of scrapbooking you usually think of making scrapbook albums.  Have you tried using your scrapbooking materials for other projects?  These project ideas are great for scrapbooking with kids.


1. Decorate jars and use them as small storage items in your children's bedrooms, like marble collections or collectible game cards.  Look in your scrapbooking supplies for stickers and rub-ons to embellish any size jar. Baby food jars and Mason jars work well for this project.


2. Make greeting cards when scrapbooking with your children.  Nearly any type of scrapbooking material can be used for making cards.  Children will love creating their own Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Father's Day or birthday cards.


3. Holiday decorations are easy to make with scrapbooking materials.  For example, Thanksgiving embellishments and cardstock can make name plates for the holiday table.  Use your creativity and help your children make a centerpiece for the table out of paper and scrapbooking supplies.


4. Help your child keep a vacation journal.  Before you go on vacation, create a scrapbook album to take along and have your child complete the album while traveling.  Select a small album so it will be easy to pack in a child's carry-on bag.  Have pages pre-designed for some of the places you are planning to visit.  You could even include some journaling prompts throughout the album.  Some examples are "My Favorite Ride at Disneyland" or "The Best Thing about Staying in a Hotel."  Then attach a small plastic bag filled with colored pencils or markers, lots of vacation-themed stickers and some adhesive to attach memorabilia and photos from the trip.  Let your child do the rest!


5. Scrapbooking for children is an opportunity to make gifts for your family.  Flip through any scrapbooking magazine, and you are sure to see a gift project.  Your child can use scrapbooking supplies to make picture frames, pencil holders, photo cubes, or note cards.  Children also can design pre-made gift scrapbooks, like a recipe album for grandma or an ABC album for a new baby cousin. 


6.  Christmas ornaments make great scrapbooking projects for gifts.  There is no limit to the kinds of ornaments you can make from scrapbooking supplies.  Don't be afraid to get messy and use glitter for this project.


7.  Birthday parties and sleepovers are the perfect project for using your scrapbooking supplies with your children.  Begin with crafting invitations out of paper and embellishments.  Have enough materials to keep the same theme throughout the project.  Take the time to create thank you notes at the same time.  Then use your scrapbook materials to make napkin holders, name plates, centerpieces and party decorations.  Finally, using the same theme, decorate goodie bags for your guests to take home.


You'll find hours of fun in these scrapbooking for kids projects.  In most cases, you have everything you need in your scrapbooking supplies right now.  Scrapbooking for children is a chance to spend quality time with your kids and encourage their creativity and imaginations.  Try one of these projects today with your child.

Hot Christmas Gifts For Boys - 2008

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Remote control vehicles top the list for the most requested Christmas gift for boys in 2008. While remote control cars and trucks are the old standby, todays sophisticated kids prefer remote control aircraft. This year there's no reason to break the bank to buy a remote control helicopter. There are many options for remote control aircraft under $25.


One of the most engaging remote control aircraft isn't a helicopter or even a plane, it's a remote controlled dragonfly, complete with flapping wings! The WowWee Flytech Dragonfly is a unique remote controlled craft that propels itself with flapping wings rather than a rotor or propeller. The dragonfly demonstrates excellent maneuverability and is easy to control. The manufacturers suggested age is 8, however we've seen kids as young as 6 effortlessly control the Dragonfly.


The Dragonfly is optimized for both interior and exterior flight - that's right kids, with Mom and Dads permission this flexible flyer can soar through the house! The battery lasts approximately 10 minutes and is easily recharged right on the remote control. The range for the remote controller is approximately 100 feet so it works great in the backyard or park as well as in the house.


If you've ever been buzzed by a real dragonfly you'll recognize the rustle and hum of the Dragonfly as it zooms past. Unlike a remote control plane it doesn't require a lot of room and can take off and land on almost any surface. We have never failed to draw a crowd when we fly the Dragonfly at a nearby park. Kids and adults alike delight in seeing it swoop and soar.


The Dragonfly is available in two different frequencies so that two can operate in the same airspace. This makes it a wonderful gift for two kids, or for a father and son. The WowWee Dragonfly comes complete with an extra set of wings and a spare propeller. The battery for the dragonfly itself is included however the remote requires 6 AA batteries that are not included so be sure to pick some up before the big day!


Priced at under $25, remote controlled aircraft are less expensive than ever before. Imagine the delight in your child's eyes as he finds his on remote-controlled aircraft under the tree! Your child will delight in flying the WowWee Flytech Dragonfly on Christmas 2008 and beyond.

Easy Quilting Crafts For Kids

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A great way to keep kids busy is to introduce them to quilting. While there are numerous crafts and fun activities for smaller children in daycare, preschool, or elementary school, finding educational crafts for older girls can be challenging. Quilting crafts for kids can help older children learn sewing techniques, spark creativity, and bust those times of boredom. It's a skill that can be used for a lifetime.


Girls love quilting because they're able to pick and choose from hundreds of patterns of all shapes and sizes. There are patterns containing flowers, squares, circles, characters, animals, nature scenes, and a variety of colors. Crafts and sewing can go hand in hand, so once a child learns quilting, she can easily add other sewing skills if desired.


Quilting Books for Beginners


Quilting books for kids offer step-by-step instructions about quilting. They also start with the basics such as how to thread a sewing machine and how to stitch in a straight line. The books list what types of fabrics, tools, and supplies are needed to make gorgeous quilts. Some books offer photos, a glossary, tips, actual quilt projects with step-by-step guides, beautiful patchwork ideas, and more. Once your child learns the basics of quilting, she can add to her skills and learn to make pillows, placemats, wall hangings, or lap quilts.


A Quilt for Every Occasion


Making quilts can be a fun way for your daughter to decorate her room in her favorite colors or themes. Quilts also make great gifts for any occasion: birthdays, Christmas, weddings, baby showers, graduations, Mother's Day, Father's Day, and even Valentine's Day. Quilt designs might also be geared toward a season, with flower patterns and light colors such as pink, light green, yellow, or baby blue in spring and summer. Darker colors such as red, brown, black, green, or blue will work well for autumn and winter patterns. Quilts as gifts will express love and effort because she made the gift very special with her own hands.


For the Career-Minded


Teens who want to earn extra money will find quilting to be very rewarding. It does take time and effort to make a quilt, but the returns can be excellent. She can sell her quilts at local flea markets, consignment shops, or even online through a website or auction (with parent's help, of course). Quilts are always in demand, and all styles and colors can be sold for profits. She can make quilts of contemporary styles or lovely patchwork designs like "grandma used to make!" It's her choice. She can even ask her friends and relatives about buying the quilts.


If you don't own a sewing machine, you might be able to find an affordable machine used at a garage sale or flea market. Or, check your local newspaper in the classifieds. You can buy one new in a local sewing supply store or on the Web. There are online auctions for sewing machines as well, so make sure to check all these resources to find a great deal.


Quilting skills will take some time to learn, but once she becomes confident, she can enjoy quilting as a way to relax and create something of value. If you'd like to start quilting with your daughter or even teach a class of young people how to quilt, search online today to find instructional books and websites about quilting.

Christmas Like it Used to Be

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Every year when Christmas looms on the horizon, I start longing for home- the land of my childhood and Christmas memories. In Germany we celebrate on Christmas Eve or Heiligabend as it is called in German. Leading up to it is Advent, starting four Sundays before Christmas, marked by lighting a candle each week on an advent wreath. This is usually kept on the table in the family room where, in the old days, the family gathered and sang Christmas carols.

On 1 December, the tradition is to give children an advent calendar with little doors numbered 1-24, each containing a piece of chocolate. It makes counting the days and the wait till Christmas easier for the impatient little ones. If you like crafts you can make your own. I used to tie 24 little parcels on a ribbon or garland, filled with mini something's like candy, tiny toys, or crayons.

Everybody loves St. Nicholas who, on Dec 6, rewards children that have been good during the year by placing little surprises in their boots which they put outside the door that night. Of course they need polishing first. The naughty ones receive a fir twig, a little symbolic punishment. This tradition survives from pre-politically correct days, but it is always mitigated by some goodies.

We exchange our gifts on Christmas Eve. Until then all the presents are well hidden somewhere, not always easy under prying eyes. The 24th is a busy day marked by secret preparations, with the parents sneaking in and out of the living room where the tree is decorated behind closed doors. The tree has to be real, often a noble fir.

My parents had an understanding that Papa would take me out in the car pretending to do a last minute errand while Mama got everything ready including a special meal.

After dark, with all the family washed and dressed up, waiting around, a mysterious little bell was heard. The sign that Father Christmas had graced us with a visit. The door of the living room would open revealing a tree with real candles and the presents laid out underneath. Children's eyes would glaze over at this stage; carol singing was to follow before anybody was allowed to open presents. Kids will play till late, but also let the parents sleep in the morning.

We kept up our traditions when we moved abroad against a tidal wave of early presents and artificial trees with electrical fairy light while the neighbors' kids wondered why Santa Claus would make an exception for Germans and come early.

I can still smell the aromas of fresh Christmas cookies and the combined fragrance of Firtrees and candles. For me there is no fascination in electric lights. Naturally, you have to watch it and yes, occasionally someone would have a fire. So we had a bucket of water at the ready. Best to blow out the candles when you leave the room.

Stollen, marzipan and advent calendars are available here. But in shorts and T-shirts and with the kids having flown the nest it's not the same. Maybe with the arrival of the next generation and the patter of little feet, I'll regain my enthusiasm.








Having lived in different countries in Europe, Ursula Siebert was a teacher, lecturer, farmer's wife who then turned a businesswoman. Now married in FL, she works as a free-lance writer.


Merry Christmas to One and All!

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ST. NICK


As the story goes, Jolly ol' Saint Nicholas was a real guy from Myra in the country of Turkey. He was a 4th Century bishop made famous when he heard the story of three Italian maidens whose families had fallen on hard times. Their father couldn't afford to have all three of them get married, so he was considering selling one of the daughters into slavery to pay for the other two to have weddings. Well, as you can imagine that's a pretty bad deal for anyone and St. Nick decided to help the family out. One night he snuck up on their roof and secretly tossed three bags of gold down the chimney. With his gift all three daughters were able to get married and his generosity became famous. He became the patron saint of children, orphans, sailors, students, pawnbrokers, thieves and the countries of Russia and Greece.


SANTA'S GOT A BRAND NEW BAG


Over time the legend of St. Nicholas grew and the feast of St. Nicholas celebrated on December 6th, the day he died. St. Nicholas' eternal retirement as Santa Claus evolved over several centuries as the legend of St. Nicholas was carried over to surrounding countries. Dutch and German settlers brought the basic ideas of what would become Santa Claus to the New World. The Dutch had Sinterklaas and the Germans had Pelsnickel and Christkindl and both celebrated the feast of St. Nicholas. The idea of naughty and nice seems to come from Pelsnickel would bring rewards to the good and punishment to the wicked. The Dutch version of Santa lived in Spain, rode a white horse and traveled with six to eight black men who helped him deliver gifts. Over the centuries, this slowly changed to characters who were far more politically correct. The men became Telatubby-type rainbow colored helpers. This was combined with Scandinavian Yuletide tradition of gifting giving elves and presto, Santa now had a legion of toy building elves to bring joy to the world.


The modern version of Santa Claus quickly took shape with American writers during the holiday season.


In 1808, Washington Irving created the idea of a pipe smoking Santa with a broad-rimmed hat riding over the tree-tops in horse-drawn wagon dropping gifts down chimneys to all his favorite kids.


In 1822, Dr. Clement Clark Moore left the longest lasting impression of the jolly ol' man with his story, "A Visit from St. Nicholas", better known as "The Night Before Christmas". He established that Santa lived in the Artic with a flying sleigh pulled by eight reindeer. He described Santa as having 'a broad face, and a little round belly, that shook when he laughed like a bowl full of jelly."


Thomas Nast illustrated covers for Harper's Weekly in the late 1800's and by request of President Lincoln was commissioned to create a special Christmas picture for the cover. This started an annual tradition for Nast who used the opportunity to mould Santa to his liking. Nast created the standard Santa suit, his home at the North Pole and the image of him pouring over a list of naughty or nice.


By the 1850, Nast's new version of Santa began appearing in American department stores. Santa's image evolved with each new holiday season. The modern image of Santa was firmly solidified by artist Haddon Sundblom in 1931, when he created an annual Santa campaign for Coca-Cola.


RUDOLPH


In 1939, Robert May, an advertising writer for the Montgomery Ward department store created the marketing idea of Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer. Montgomery Ward distributed 2.4 million copies of the story booklet in its first year of release. May had suffered considerable financial strife, his wife had died of a terminal illness and in 1947 the department store signed over the copyright of Rudolph to him. May's brother-in-law soon after wrote the lyrics for the song, 'Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer'. Gene Autry was the first to record the song in 1949 and it went on to becoming the second best selling song of all time, second only to 'White Christmas'. The famous Rudolph Christmas special was created in 1964 and remains a classic to this day.


WE THREE KINGS


Gold, frankincense and myrrh - precious metal and gum resins, that's what the three wise men brought to the baby Jesus on his birthday. These were rare and special gifts, things you wouldn't normally be able to get your hands on, especially if you were an infant even if you're dad was the creator of the known universe. Everybody knows what gold is and I'm guessing the guy who brought it was the town favorite, so what about frankincense and myrrh? Frankincense is hardened tree sap from the Boswelia tree. Myrrh is also hardened tree sap from the Miphora tree family. They both are used as incense and commonly found in the country of Somalia.


An interesting note, nothing in the Bible states how many wise men showed up bearing gifts. Gaspar, Melchior and Balthasar are commonly referred to has the names of the wise men, but these names don't appear in the Bible either. The number three is reference to the three types of gifts presented. Also there is no mention of the wise men riding camels or being kings. There is further evidence that the men showed up sometime after the actual birth as the source info in Matthew 2:11 states, "And when they were come into the house, they say the young child with Mary his mother, and fell down, and worshipped himâEUR¦" Hmmm, it seems by this time Mary had a home and Jesus a young kid, instead of an infant in a stable.


STOCKING STUFFERS


The original idea for stocking stuffing came from kids leaving carrots and turnips in their shoes for Santa's horse or donkey, long before he was known to have reindeer. Santa would gratefully take the snacks for his stead and replace them with treats for the giving children.


CANDIED CANE


The red and white striped holiday pacifier has been around for several centuries. Parents have long been giving their children white sugar sticks to keep their yaps shut, then in the 1670's an industrious German choirmaster bent the sticks to resemble shepherd staff. With their somewhat holy interpretation, as Jesus was the Good Shepherd, and convenient hook shape for hanging on tree branches, the candy became a favorite Christmas tree decoration. When turned upside down, the hook is big "J", a fitting symbol for Big J.


Over time, the candy adopted its peppermint flavor and familiar stripes. Peppermint is similar to hyssop, which was used for ancient purification and sacrifice rituals. The traditional candy cane has three small red stripes and one large one. The most common interpretation states the three small ones represent the Holy Trinity and the larger one reminds us of God. Another versions states that the three small stripes represent our own sins while the larger symbolizes Christ's Passion. Green is the color of giving and a green stripe is sometimes added to represents Jesus is God's gift to us.


KISSY FACE


By definition, mistletoe is an aerial evergreen parasitic plant that has no roots of its own and lives off the tree it attaches itself to. Doesn't sound so romantic does it?


Well, centuries ago, Druids respected mistletoe as a sacred plant with spiritual and medicinal healing qualities. Much fanfare went into collecting the plant and they used a special gold dagger to harvest it. A Norse myth tells the story of a Balder, the god of light, who was shot down by an arrow crafted from a branch of mistletoe. Earth and heaven wept for his death and for three days each element tried in vain to bring Balder back to life. It was his mother, Frigga who restored but not before her fallen tears were transformed into the white berries of the mistletoe. From then on she decreed that no harm would fall to anyone under the mistletoe and they shall receive only a kiss of love.


O' CHRISTMAS TREE


In the 4th Century AD, the Roman Church decided Christmas should officially be celebrated on December 25th. By doing this some of the pagan customs of the Roman Saturnalia were absorbed as it was celebrated at that same time of year. During Saturnalia people feasted, exchanged gifts and decorated their homes with lamps and evergreen shrubs. The food and presents were fine with the Church, but the evergreen stuff was just too pagan for them at it was forbidden. For centuries the battle over festive home decoration ensued. In the 16th Century John Calvin forbade the observance of Christmas and Easter and in 1659 it was against the law in Massachusetts to celebrate Christmas anywhere else but in church. It wasn't fully embraced until the mid-nineteenth century by England's Prince Albert allowing for Christmas and the home decoration of Christmas trees to be fully accepted.


Today it is customary for nearly everyone to have a Christmas tree in their homes, regardless of strong religious affiliations. 2004 marks the 72nd Annual lighting of the Rockefeller Christmas Tree.


ROCKEFELLER CENTER


The annual Christmas tree at Rockefeller Center is usually a Norway Spruce. They usually have a life span of 80 to 110 years and grow about a foot a year. The desired dimensions are a minimum of 65 feet tall and 35 feet wide. 75 to 100 feet tall are preferred. The trees are located in the Northeastern part of the United States. It takes all of two minutes to cut it down by requires 20 people and a 280-ton all-terrain hydraulic crane to handle the tree. Once in place it is transported via a custom built telescoping flatbed truck to New York City.


CHRISTMAS LIGHTS


After centuries of repression, Christmas became a legal holiday in 1859 in the state of Massachusetts. Soon the rest of the United States followed and in 1882 Thomas Edison struck upon the idea of electric Christmas lights. By 1912, outdoor Christmas tree lights had become common in Boston. After the first World War, the lights caught on Europe and by the mid-20th Century they had become widespread and a well-established part of the holiday cheer. These days it is the inciting moment that marks the holiday season with the sight of the first Christmas lights of the year.


CELEBRITY CHRISTMAS


Here's the scene, a reenactment of the nativity starring Samuel L. Jackson, Hugh Grant and Graham Norton as shepherds, David and Victoria Beckham as Joseph and Mary, British Prime Minister Tony Blair, The Duke of Edinburgh and President George W. Bush as the Three Wise Men, Kyle Minogue as the Angel and J.C. playing himself as an infant. It's not a movie, but this year's Madame Tussaud's Celebrity Nativity scene now on display in London. We'll leave it to you to find what's wrong with that picture.